Like a lot of women, Jessie from Super Deluxe, was looking for love on Tinder and instead found mostly weird messages about sexual things guys wanted to do to/with her. So naturally she decided to ask all those guys to meet her in person and film a conversation with them, Daily Mailreports.
Most of the men saw the cameras and ran, but three guys did stick around to chat with her about the messages they sent her. One of the guys said pervy messages are “a compliment” and another guy said women are looking for “pervs,” but Jessie tells them it’s not what she wanted.
Nonetheless, the guy who says women <3 pervs maintains that women on Tinder really like it when he talks to them that way. To be fair, I’m sure he’s right to some extent because plenty of women on Tinder are looking for someone to talk dirty with or sleep with, so he’s probably not totally off-base by assuming some women want that in the same way some men do, but being able to judge who does and doesn’t can be dicey.
In the end, Jessie concludes that while a lot of the guys she met up with “talk this really big pervy game,” they were “mostly just sweet dudes that are lonely and looking for love too,” and she wished they’d just shown her that side of their personality online instead.
Don’t we all, Jessie. Don’t we all.
